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Epictetus
Translated by Elizabeth Carter
1. Some things are in our control and others not. Things in our control are opinion, pursuit, desire, aversion,
and, in a word, whatever are our own actions. Things not in our control are body, property, reputation,
command, and, in one word, whatever are not our own actions.
The things in our control are by nature free, unrestrained, unhindered; but those not in our control are weak,
slavish, restrained, belonging to others. Remember, then, that if you suppose that things which are slavish by
nature are also free, and that what belongs to others is your own, then you will be hindered. You will lament,
you will be disturbed, and you will find fault both with gods and men. But if you suppose that only to be your
own which is your own, and what belongs to others such as it really is, then no one will ever compel you or
restrain you. Further, you will find fault with no one or accuse no one. You will do nothing against your will.
No one will hurt you, you will have no enemies, and you not be harmed.
Aiming therefore at such great things, remember that you must not allow yourself to be carried, even with a
slight tendency, towards the attainment of lesser things. Instead, you must entirely quit some things and for
the present postpone the rest. But if you would both have these great things, along with power and riches,
then you will not gain even the latter, because you aim at the former too: but you will absolutely fail of the
former, by which alone happiness and freedom are achieved.
Work, therefore to be able to say to every harsh appearance, "You are but an appearance, and not absolutely
the thing you appear to be." And then examine it by those rules which you have, and first, and chiefly, by
this: whether it concerns the things which are in our own control, or those which are not; and, if it concerns
anything not in our control, be prepared to say that it is nothing to you.
2. Remember that following desire promises the attainment of that of which you are desirous; and aversion
promises the avoiding that to which you are averse. However, he who fails to obtain the object of his desire is
disappointed, and he who incurs the object of his aversion wretched. If, then, you confine your aversion to
those objects only which are contrary to the natural use of your faculties, which you have in your own
control, you will never incur anything to which you are averse. But if you are averse to sickness, or death, or
poverty, you will be wretched. Remove aversion, then, from all things that are not in our control, and transfer
it to things contrary to the nature of what is in our control. But, for the present, totally suppress desire: for, if
you desire any of the things which are not in your own control, you must necessarily be disappointed; and of
those which are, and which it would be laudable to desire, nothing is yet in your possession. Use only the
appropriate actions of pursuit and avoidance; and even these lightly, and with gentleness and reservation.
3. With regard to whatever objects give you delight, are useful, or are deeply loved, remember to tell yourself
of what general nature they are, beginning from the most insignificant things. If, for example, you are fond of
a specific ceramic cup, remind yourself that it is only ceramic cups in general of which you are fond. Then, if
it breaks, you will not be disturbed. If you kiss your child, or your wife, say that you only kiss things which
are human, and thus you will not be disturbed if either of them dies.
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4. When you are going about any action, remind yourself what nature the action is. If you are going to bathe,
picture to yourself the things which usually happen in the bath: some people splash the water, some push,
some use abusive language, and others steal. Thus you will more safely go about this action if you say to
yourself, "I will now go bathe, and keep my own mind in a state conformable to nature." And in the same
manner with regard to every other action. For thus, if any hindrance arises in bathing, you will have it ready
to say, "It was not only to bathe that I desired, but to keep my mind in a state conformable to nature; and I
will not keep it if I am bothered at things that happen.
5. Men are disturbed, not by things, but by the principles and notions which they form concerning things.
Death, for instance, is not terrible, else it would have appeared so to Socrates. But the terror consists in our
notion of death that it is terrible. When therefore we are hindered, or disturbed, or grieved, let us never
attribute it to others, but to ourselves; that is, to our own principles. An uninstructed person will lay the fault
of his own bad condition upon others. Someone just starting instruction will lay the fault on himself. Some
who is perfectly instructed will place blame neither on others nor on himself.
6. Don't be prideful with any excellence that is not your own. If a horse should be prideful and say, " I am
handsome," it would be supportable. But when you are prideful, and say, " I have a handsome horse," know
that you are proud of what is, in fact, only the good of the horse. What, then, is your own? Only your reaction
to the appearances of things. Thus, when you behave conformably to nature in reaction to how things appear,
you will be proud with reason; for you will take pride in some good of your own.
7. Consider when, on a voyage, your ship is anchored; if you go on shore to get water you may along the way
amuse yourself with picking up a shellish, or an onion. However, your thoughts and continual attention ought
to be bent towards the ship, waiting for the captain to call on board; you must then immediately leave all
these things, otherwise you will be thrown into the ship, bound neck and feet like a sheep. So it is with life.
If, instead of an onion or a shellfish, you are given a wife or child, that is fine. But if the captain calls, you
must run to the ship, leaving them, and regarding none of them. But if you are old, never go far from the ship:
lest, when you are called, you should be unable to come in time.
8. Don't demand that things happen as you wish, but wish that they happen as they do happen, and you will
go on well.
9. Sickness is a hindrance to the body, but not to your ability to choose, unless that is your choice. Lameness
is a hindrance to the leg, but not to your ability to choose. Say this to yourself with regard to everything that
happens, then you will see such obstacles as hindrances to something else, but not to yourself.
10. With every accident, ask yourself what abilities you have for making a proper use of it. If you see an
attractive person, you will find that selfrestraint is the ability you have against your desire. If you are in
pain, you will find fortitude. If you hear unpleasant language, you will find patience. And thus habituated, the
appearances of things will not hurry you away along with them.
11. Never say of anything, "I have lost it"; but, "I have returned it." Is your child dead? It is returned. Is your
wife dead? She is returned. Is your estate taken away? Well, and is not that likewise returned? "But he who
took it away is a bad man." What difference is it to you who the giver assigns to take it back? While he gives
it to you to possess, take care of it; but don't view it as your own, just as travelers view a hotel.
12. If you want to improve, reject such reasonings as these: "If I neglect my affairs, I'll have no income; if I
don't correct my servant, he will be bad." For it is better to die with hunger, exempt from grief and fear, than
to live in affluence with perturbation; and it is better your servant should be bad, than you unhappy.
Begin therefore from little things. Is a little oil spilt? A little wine stolen? Say to yourself, "This is the price
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paid for apathy, for tranquillity, and nothing is to be had for nothing." When you call your servant, it is
possible that he may not come; or, if he does, he may not do what you want. But he is by no means of such
importance that it should be in his power to give you any disturbance.
13. If you want to improve, be content to be thought foolish and stupid with regard to external things. Don't
wish to be thought to know anything; and even if you appear to be somebody important to others, distrust
yourself. For, it is difficult to both keep your faculty of choice in a state conformable to nature, and at the
same time acquire external things. But while you are careful about the one, you must of necessity neglect the
other.
14. If you wish your children, and your wife, and your friends to live for ever, you are stupid; for you wish to
be in control of things which you cannot, you wish for things that belong to others to be your own. So
likewise, if you wish your servant to be without fault, you are a fool; for you wish vice not to be vice," but
something else. But, if you wish to have your desires undisappointed, this is in your own control. Exercise,
therefore, what is in your control. He is the master of every other person who is able to confer or remove
whatever that person wishes either to have or to avoid. Whoever, then, would be free, let him wish nothing,
let him decline nothing, which depends on others else he must necessarily be a slave.
15. Remember that you must behave in life as at a dinner party. Is anything brought around to you? Put out
your hand and take your share with moderation. Does it pass by you? Don't stop it. Is it not yet come? Don't
stretch your desire towards it, but wait till it reaches you. Do this with regard to children, to a wife, to public
posts, to riches, and you will eventually be a worthy partner of the feasts of the gods. And if you don't even
take the things which are set before you, but are able even to reject them, then you will not only be a partner
at the feasts of the gods, but also of their empire. For, by doing this, Diogenes, Heraclitus and others like
them, deservedly became, and were called, divine.
16. When you see anyone weeping in grief because his son has gone abroad, or is dead, or because he has
suffered in his affairs, be careful that the appearance may not misdirect you. Instead, distinguish within your
own mind, and be prepared to say, "It's not the accident that distresses this person., because it doesn't distress
another person; it is the judgment which he makes about it." As far as words go, however, don't reduce
yourself to his level, and certainly do not moan with him. Do not moan inwardly either.
17. Remember that you are an actor in a drama, of such a kind as the author pleases to make it. If short, of a
short one; if long, of a long one. If it is his pleasure you should act a poor man, a cripple, a governor, or a
private person, see that you act it naturally. For this is your business, to act well the character assigned you; to
choose it is another's.
18. When a raven happens to croak unluckily, don't allow the appearance hurry you away with it, but
immediately make the distinction to yourself, and say, "None of these things are foretold to me; but either to
my paltry body, or property, or reputation, or children, or wife. But to me all omens are lucky, if I will. For
whichever of these things happens, it is in my control to derive advantage from it."
19. You may be unconquerable, if you enter into no combat in which it is not in your own control to conquer.
When, therefore, you see anyone eminent in honors, or power, or in high esteem on any other account, take
heed not to be hurried away with the appearance, and to pronounce him happy; for, if the essence of good
consists in things in our own control, there will be no room for envy or emulation. But, for your part, don't
wish to be a general, or a senator, or a consul, but to be free; and the only way to this is a contempt of things
not in our own control.
20. Remember, that not he who gives ill language or a blow insults, but the principle which represents these
things as insulting. When, therefore, anyone provokes you, be assured that it is your own opinion which
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provokes you. Try, therefore, in the first place, not to be hurried away with the appearance. For if you once
gain time and respite, you will more easily command yourself.
21. Let death and exile, and all other things which appear terrible be daily before your eyes, but chiefly death,
and you win never entertain any abject thought, nor too eagerly covet anything.
22. If you have an earnest desire of attaining to philosophy, prepare yourself from the very first to be laughed
at, to be sneered by the multitude, to hear them say,." He is returned to us a philosopher all at once," and "
Whence this supercilious look?" Now, for your part, don't have a supercilious look indeed; but keep steadily
to those things which appear best to you as one appointed by God to this station. For remember that, if you
adhere to the same point, those very persons who at first ridiculed will afterwards admire you. But if you are
conquered by them, you will incur a double ridicule.
23. If you ever happen to turn your attention to externals, so as to wish to please anyone, be assured that you
have ruined your scheme of life. Be contented, then, in everything with being a philosopher; and, if you wish
to be thought so likewise by anyone, appear so to yourself, and it will suffice you.
24. Don't allow such considerations as these distress you. "I will live in dishonor, and be nobody anywhere."
For, if dishonor is an evil, you can no more be involved in any evil by the means of another, than be engaged
in anything base. Is it any business of yours, then, to get power, or to be admitted to an entertainment? By no
means. How, then, after all, is this a dishonor? And how is it true that you will be nobody anywhere, when
you ought to be somebody in those things only which are in your own control, in which you may be of the
greatest consequence? "But my friends will be unassisted." What do you mean by unassisted? They will
not have money from you, nor will you make them Roman citizens. Who told you, then, that these are among
the things in our own control, and not the affair of others? And who can give to another the things which he
has not himself? "Well, but get them, then, that we too may have a share." If I can get them with the
preservation of my own honor and fidelity and greatness of mind, show me the way and I will get them; but if
you require me to lose my own proper good that you may gain what is not good, consider how inequitable
and foolish you are. Besides, which would you rather have, a sum of money, or a friend of fidelity and honor?
Rather assist me, then, to gain this character than require me to do those things by which I may lose it. Well,
but my country, say you, as far as depends on me, will be unassisted. Here again, what assistance is this you
mean? "It will not have porticoes nor baths of your providing." And what signifies that? Why, neither does a
smith provide it with shoes, or a shoemaker with arms. It is enough if everyone fully performs his own proper
business. And were you to supply it with another citizen of honor and fidelity, would not he be of use to it?
Yes. Therefore neither are you yourself useless to it. "What place, then, say you, will I hold in the state?"
Whatever you can hold with the preservation of your fidelity and honor. But if, by desiring to be useful to
that, you lose these, of what use can you be to your country when you are become faithless and void of
shame.
25. Is anyone preferred before you at an entertainment, or in a compliment, or in being admitted to a
consultation? If these things are good, you ought to be glad that he has gotten them; and if they are evil, don't
be grieved that you have not gotten them. And remember that you cannot, without using the same means
[which others do] to acquire things not in our own control, expect to be thought worthy of an equal share of
them. For how can he who does not frequent the door of any [great] man, does not attend him, does not praise
him, have an equal share with him who does? You are unjust, then, and insatiable, if you are unwilling to pay
the price for which these things are sold, and would have them for nothing. For how much is lettuce sold?
Fifty cents, for instance. If another, then, paying fifty cents, takes the lettuce, and you, not paying it, go
without them, don't imagine that he has gained any advantage over you. For as he has the lettuce, so you have
the fifty cents which you did not give. So, in the present case, you have not been invited to such a person's
entertainment, because you have not paid him the price for which a supper is sold. It is sold for praise; it is
sold for attendance. Give him then the value, if it is for your advantage. But if you would, at the same time,
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not pay the one and yet receive the other, you are insatiable, and a blockhead. Have you nothing, then, instead
of the supper? Yes, indeed, you have: the not praising him, whom you don't like to praise; the not bearing
with his behavior at coming in.
26. The will of nature may be learned from those things in which we don't distinguish from each other. For
example, when our neighbor's boy breaks a cup, or the like, we are presently ready to say, "These things will
happen." Be assured, then, that when your own cup likewise is broken, you ought to be affected just as when
another's cup was broken. Apply this in like manner to greater things. Is the child or wife of another dead?
There is no one who would not say, "This is a human accident." but if anyone's own child happens to die, it is
presently, "Alas I how wretched am I!" But it should be remembered how we are affected in hearing the same
thing concerning others.
27. As a mark is not set up for the sake of missing the aim, so neither does the nature of evil exist in the
world.
28. If a person gave your body to any stranger he met on his way, you would certainly be angry. And do you
feel no shame in handing over your own mind to be confused and mystified by anyone who happens to
verbally attack you?
29. In every affair consider what precedes and follows, and then undertake it. Otherwise you will begin with
spirit; but not having thought of the consequences, when some of them appear you will shamefully desist. "I
would conquer at the Olympic games." But consider what precedes and follows, and then, if it is for your
advantage, engage in the affair. You must conform to rules, submit to a diet, refrain from dainties; exercise
your body, whether you choose it or not, at a stated hour, in heat and cold; you must drink no cold water, nor
sometimes even wine. In a word, you must give yourself up to your master, as to a physician. Then, in the
combat, you may be thrown into a ditch, dislocate your arm, turn your ankle, swallow dust, be whipped, and,
after all, lose the victory. When you have evaluated all this, if your inclination still holds, then go to war.
Otherwise, take notice, you will behave like children who sometimes play like wrestlers, sometimes
gladiators, sometimes blow a trumpet, and sometimes act a tragedy when they have seen and admired these
shows. Thus you too will be at one time a wrestler, at another a gladiator, now a philosopher, then an orator;
but with your whole soul, nothing at all. Like an ape, you mimic all you see, and one thing after another is
sure to please you, but is out of favor as soon as it becomes familiar. For you have never entered upon
anything considerately, nor after having viewed the whole matter on all sides, or made any scrutiny into it,
but rashly, and with a cold inclination. Thus some, when they have seen a philosopher and heard a man
speaking like Euphrates (though, indeed, who can speak like him?), have a mind to be philosophers too.
Consider first, man, what the matter is, and what your own nature is able to bear. If you would be a wrestler,
consider your shoulders, your back, your thighs; for different persons are made for different things. Do you
think that you can act as you do, and be a philosopher? That you can eat and drink, and be angry and
discontented as you are now? You must watch, you must labor, you must get the better of certain appetites,
must quit your acquaintance, be despised by your servant, be laughed at by those you meet; come off worse
than others in everything, in magistracies, in honors, in courts of judicature. When you have considered all
these things round, approach, if you please; if, by parting with them, you have a mind to purchase apathy,
freedom, and tranquillity. If not, don't come here; don't, like children, be one while a philosopher, then a
publican, then an orator, and then one of Caesar's officers. These things are not consistent. You must be one
man, either good or bad. You must cultivate either your own ruling faculty or externals, and apply yourself
either to things within or without you; that is, be either a philosopher, or one of the vulgar.
30. Duties are universally measured by relations. Is anyone a father? If so, it is implied that the children
should take care of him, submit to him in everything, patiently listen to his reproaches, his correction. But he
is a bad father. Is you naturally entitled, then, to a good father? No, only to a father. Is a brother unjust? Well,
keep your own situation towards him. Consider not what he does, but what you are to do to keep your own
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faculty of choice in a state conformable to nature. For another will not hurt you unless you please. You will
then be hurt when you think you are hurt. In this manner, therefore, you will find, from the idea of a
neighbor, a citizen, a general, the corresponding duties if you accustom yourself to contemplate the several
relations.
31. Be assured that the essential property of piety towards the gods is to form right opinions concerning them,
as existing "I and as governing the universe with goodness and justice. And fix yourself in this resolution, to
obey them, and yield to them, and willingly follow them in all events, as produced by the most perfect
understanding. For thus you will never find fault with the gods, nor accuse them as neglecting you. And it is
not possible for this to be effected any other way than by withdrawing yourself from things not in our own
control, and placing good or evil in those only which are. For if you suppose any of the things not in our own
control to be either good or evil, when you are disappointed of what you wish, or incur what you would
avoid, you must necessarily find fault with and blame the authors. For every animal is naturally formed to fly
and abhor things that appear hurtful, and the causes of them; and to pursue and admire those which appear
beneficial, and the causes of them. It is impractical, then, that one who supposes himself to be hurt should be
happy about the person who, he thinks, hurts him, just as it is impossible to be happy about the hurt itself.
Hence, also, a father is reviled by a son, when he does not impart to him the things which he takes to be good;
and the supposing empire to be a good made Polynices and Eteocles mutually enemies. On this account the
husbandman, the sailor, the merchant, on this account those who lose wives and children, revile the gods. For
where interest is, there too is piety placed. So that, whoever is careful to regulate his desires and aversions as
he ought, is, by the very same means, careful of piety likewise. But it is also incumbent on everyone to offer
libations and sacrifices and first fruits, conformably to the customs of his country, with purity, and not in a
slovenly manner, nor negligently, nor sparingly, nor beyond his ability.
32. When you have recourse to divination, remember that you know not what the event will be, and you come
to learn it of the diviner; but of what nature it is you know before you come, at least if you are a philosopher.
For if it is among the things not in our own control, it can by no means be either good or evil. Don't,
therefore, bring either desire or aversion with you to the diviner (else you will approach him trembling), but
first acquire a distinct knowledge that every event is indifferent and nothing to you., of whatever sort it may
be, for it will be in your power to make a right use of it, and this no one can hinder; then come with
confidence to the gods, as your counselors, and afterwards, when any counsel is given you, remember what
counselors you have assumed, and whose advice you will neglect if you disobey. Come to divination, as
Socrates prescribed, in cases of which the whole consideration relates to the event, and in which no
opportunities are afforded by reason, or any other art, to discover the thing proposed to be learned. When,
therefore, it is our duty to share the danger of a friend or of our country, we ought not to consult the oracle
whether we will share it with them or not. For, though the diviner should forewarn you that the victims are
unfavorable, this means no more than that either death or mutilation or exile is portended. But we have reason
within us, and it directs, even with these hazards, to the greater diviner, the Pythian god, who cast out of the
temple the person who gave no assistance to his friend while another was murdering him.
33. Immediately prescribe some character and form of conduce to yourself, which you may keep both alone
and in company.
Be for the most part silent, or speak merely what is necessary, and in few words. We may, however, enter,
though sparingly, into discourse sometimes when occasion calls for it, but not on any of the common
subjects, of gladiators, or horse races, or athletic champions, or feasts, the vulgar topics of conversation; but
principally not of men, so as either to blame, or praise, or make comparisons. If you are able, then, by your
own conversation bring over that of your company to proper subjects; but, if you happen to be taken among
strangers, be silent.
Don't allow your laughter be much, nor on many occasions, nor profuse.
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Avoid swearing, if possible, altogether; if not, as far as you are able.
Avoid public and vulgar entertainments; but, if ever an occasion calls you to them, keep your attention upon
the stretch, that you may not imperceptibly slide into vulgar manners. For be assured that if a person be ever
so sound himself, yet, if his companion be infected, he who converses with him will be infected likewise.
Provide things relating to the body no further than mere use; as meat, drink, clothing, house, family. But
strike off and reject everything relating to show and delicacy.
As far as possible, before marriage, keep yourself pure from familiarities with women, and, if you indulge
them, let it be lawfully." But don't therefore be troublesome and full of reproofs to those who use these
liberties, nor frequently boast that you yourself don't.
If anyone tells you that such a person speaks ill of you, don't make excuses about what is said of you, but
answer: " He does not know my other faults, else he would not have mentioned only these."
It is not necessary for you to appear often at public spectacles; but if ever there is a proper occasion for you to
be there, don't appear more solicitous for anyone than for yourself; that is, wish things to be only just as they
are, and him only to conquer who is the conqueror, for thus you will meet with no hindrance. But abstain
entirely from declamations and derision and violent emotions. And when you come away, don't discourse a
great deal on what has passed, and what does not contribute to your own amendment. For it would appear by
such discourse that you were immoderately struck with the show.
Go not [of your own accord] to the rehearsals of any (authors) , nor appear [at them] readily. But, if you do
appear, keepyour gravity and sedateness, and at the same time avoid being morose.
When you are going to confer with anyone, and particularly of those in a superior station, represent to
yourself how Socrates or Zeno would behave in such a case, and you will not be at a loss to make a proper
use of whatever may occur.
When you are going to any of the people in power, represent to yourself that you will not find him at home;
that you will not be admitted; that the doors will not be opened to you; that he will take no notice of you. If,
with all this, it is your duty to go, bear what happens, and never say [to yourself], " It was not worth so
much." For this is vulgar, and like a man dazed by external things.
In parties of conversation, avoid a frequent and excessive mention of your own actions and dangers. For,
however agreeable it may be to yourself to mention the risks you have run, it is not equally agreeable to
others to hear your adventures. Avoid, likewise, an endeavor to excite laughter. For this is a slippery point,
which may throw you into vulgar manners, and, besides, may be apt to lessen you in the esteem of your
acquaintance. Approaches to indecent discourse are likewise dangerous. Whenever, therefore, anything of
this sort happens, if there be a proper opportunity, rebuke him who makes advances that way; or, at least, by
silence and blushing and a forbidding look, show yourself to be displeased by such talk.
34. If you are struck by the appearance of any promised pleasure, guard yourself against being hurried away
by it; but let the affair wait your leisure, and procure yourself some delay. Then bring to your mind both
points of time: that in which you will enjoy the pleasure, and that in which you will repent and reproach
yourself after you have enjoyed it; and set before you, in opposition to these, how you will be glad and
applaud yourself if you abstain. And even though it should appear to you a seasonable gratification, take heed
that its enticing, and agreeable and attractive force may not subdue you; but set in opposition to this how
much better it is to be conscious of having gained so great a victory.
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35. When you do anything from a clear judgment that it ought to be done, never shun the being seen to do it,
even though the world should make a wrong supposition about it; for, if you don't act right, shun the action
itself; but, if you do, why are you afraid of those who censure you wrongly?
36. As the proposition, "Either it is day or it is night," is extremely proper for a disjunctive argument, but
quite improper in a conjunctive one, so, at a feast, to choose the largest share is very suitable to the bodily
appetite, but utterly inconsistent with the social spirit of an entertainment. When you eat with another, then,
remember not only the value of those things which are set before you to the body, but the value of that
behavior which ought to be observed towards the person who gives the entertainment.
37. If you have assumed any character above your strength, you have both made an ill figure in that and
quitted one which you might have supported.
38. When walking, you are careful not to step on a nail or turn your foot; so likewise be careful not to hurt the
ruling faculty of your mind. And, if we were to guard against this in every action, we should undertake the
action with the greater safety.
39. The body is to everyone the measure of the possessions proper for it, just as the foot is of the shoe. If,
therefore, you stop at this, you will keep the measure; but if you move beyond it, you must necessarily be
carried forward, as down a cliff; as in the case of a shoe, if you go beyond its fitness to the foot, it comes first
to be gilded, then purple, and then studded with jewels. For to that which once exceeds a due measure, there
is no bound.
40. Women from fourteen years old are flattered with the title of "mistresses" by the men. Therefore,
perceiving that they are regarded only as qualified to give the men pleasure, they begin to adorn themselves,
and in that to place ill their hopes. We should, therefore, fix our attention on making them sensible that they
are valued for the appearance of decent, modest and discreet behavior.
41. It is a mark of want of genius to spend much time in things relating to the body, as to be long in our
exercises, in eating and drinking, and in the discharge of other animal functions. These should be done
incidentally and slightly, and our whole attention be engaged in the care of the understanding.
42. When any person harms you, or speaks badly of you, remember that he acts or speaks from a supposition
of its being his duty. Now, it is not possible that he should follow what appears right to you, but what appears
so to himself. Therefore, if he judges from a wrong appearance, he is the person hurt, since he too is the
person deceived. For if anyone should suppose a true proposition to be false, the proposition is not hurt, but
he who is deceived about it. Setting out, then, from these principles, you will meekly bear a person who
reviles you, for you will say upon every occasion, "It seemed so to him."
43. Everything has two handles, the one by which it may be carried, the other by which it cannot. If your
brother acts unjustly, don't lay hold on the action by the handle of his injustice, for by that it cannot be
carried; but by the opposite, that he is your brother, that he was brought up with you; and thus you will lay
hold on it, as it is to be carried.
44. These reasonings are unconnected: "I am richer than you, therefore I am better"; "I am more eloquent
than you, therefore I am better." The connection is rather this: "I am richer than you, therefore my property is
greater than yours;" "I am more eloquent than you, therefore my style is better than yours." But you, after all,
are neither property nor style.
45. Does anyone bathe in a mighty little time? Don't say that he does it ill, but in a mighty little time. Does
anyone drink a great quantity of wine? Don't say that he does ill, but that he drinks a great quantity. For,
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unless you perfectly understand the principle from which anyone acts, how should you know if he acts ill?
Thus you will not run the hazard of assenting to any appearances but such as you fully comprehend.
46. Never call yourself a philosopher, nor talk a great deal among the unlearned about theorems, but act
conformably to them. Thus, at an entertainment, don't talk how persons ought to eat, but eat as you ought. For
remember that in this manner Socrates also universally avoided all ostentation. And when persons came to
him and desired to be recommended by him to philosophers, he took and recommended them, so well did he
bear being overlooked. So that if ever any talk should happen among the unlearned concerning philosophic
theorems, be you, for the most part, silent. For there is great danger in immediately throwing out what you
have not digested. And, if anyone tells you that you know nothing, and you are not nettled at it, then you may
be sure that you have begun your business. For sheep don't throw up the grass to show the shepherds how
much they have eaten; but, inwardly digesting their food, they outwardly produce wool and milk. Thus,
therefore, do you likewise not show theorems to the unlearned, but the actions produced by them after they
have been digested.
47. When you have brought yourself to supply the necessities of your body at a small price, don't pique
yourself upon it; nor, if you drink water, be saying upon every occasion, "I drink water." But first consider
how much more sparing and patient of hardship the poor are than we. But if at any time you would inure
yourself by exercise to labor, and bearing hard trials, do it for your own sake, and not for the world; don't
grasp statues, but, when you are violently thirsty, take a little cold water in your mouth, and spurt it out and
tell nobody.
48. The condition and characteristic of a vulgar person, is, that he never expects either benefit or hurt from
himself, but from externals. The condition and characteristic of a philosopher is, that he expects all hurt and
benefit from himself. The marks of a proficient are, that he censures no one, praises no one, blames no one,
accuses no one, says nothing concerning himself as being anybody, or knowing anything: when he is, in any
instance, hindered or restrained, he accuses himself; and, if he is praised, he secretly laughs at the person who
praises him; and, if he is censured, he makes no defense. But he goes about with the caution of sick or injured
people, dreading to move anything that is set right, before it is perfectly fixed. He suppresses all desire in
himself; he transfers his aversion to those things only which thwart the proper use of our own faculty of
choice; the exertion of his active powers towards anything is very gentle; if he appears stupid or ignorant, he
does not care, and, in a word, he watches himself as an enemy, and one in ambush.
49. When anyone shows himself overly confident in ability to understand and interpret the works of
Chrysippus, say to yourself, " Unless Chrysippus had written obscurely, this person would have had no
subject for his vanity. But what do I desire? To understand nature and follow her. I ask, then, who interprets
her, and, finding Chrysippus does, I have recourse to him. I don't understand his writings. I seek, therefore,
one to interpret them." So far there is nothing to value myself upon. And when I find an interpreter, what
remains is to make use of his instructions. This alone is the valuable thing. But, if I admire nothing but
merely the interpretation, what do I become more than a grammarian instead of a philosopher? Except,
indeed, that instead of Homer I interpret Chrysippus. When anyone, therefore, desires me to read Chrysippus
to him, I rather blush when I cannot show my actions agreeable and consonant to his discourse.
50. Whatever moral rules you have deliberately proposed to yourself. abide by them as they were laws, and as
if you would be guilty of impiety by violating any of them. Don't regard what anyone says of you, for this,
after all, is no concern of yours. How long, then, will you put off thinking yourself worthy of the highest
improvements and follow the distinctions of reason? You have received the philosophical theorems, with
which you ought to be familiar, and you have been familiar with them. What other master, then, do you wait
for, to throw upon that the delay of reforming yourself? You are no longer a boy, but a grown man. If,
therefore, you will be negligent and slothful, and always add procrastination to procrastination, purpose to
purpose, and fix day after day in which you will attend to yourself, you will insensibly continue without
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proficiency, and, living and dying, persevere in being one of the vulgar. This instant, then, think yourself
worthy of living as a man grown up, and a proficient. Let whatever appears to be the best be to you an
inviolable law. And if any instance of pain or pleasure, or glory or disgrace, is set before you, remember that
now is the combat, now the Olympiad comes on, nor can it be put off. By once being defeated and giving
way, proficiency is lost, or by the contrary preserved. Thus Socrates became perfect, improving himself by
everything. attending to nothing but reason. And though you are not yet a Socrates, you ought, however, to
live as one desirous of becoming a Socrates.
51. The first and most necessary topic in philosophy is that of the use of moral theorems, such as, "We ought
not to lie;" the second is that of demonstrations, such as, "What is the origin of our obligation not to lie;" the
third gives strength and articulation to the other two, such as, "What is the origin of this is a demonstration."
For what is demonstration? What is consequence? What contradiction? What truth? What falsehood? The
third topic, then, is necessary on the account of the second, and the second on the account of the first. But the
most necessary, and that whereon we ought to rest, is the first. But we act just on the contrary. For we spend
all our time on the third topic, and employ all our diligence about that, and entirely neglect the first.
Therefore, at the same time that we lie, we are immediately prepared to show how it is demonstrated that
lying is not right.
52. Upon all occasions we ought to have these maxims ready at hand:
"Conduct me, Jove, and you, 0 Destiny,
Wherever your decrees have fixed my station."
(Cleanthes)
"I follow cheerfully; and, did I not,
Wicked and wretched, I must follow still
Whoever yields properly to Fate, is deemed
Wise among men, and knows the laws of heaven."
(Euripides, Frag. 965)
And this third:
"O Crito, if it thus pleases the gods, thus let it be. Anytus and
Melitus may kill me indeed, but hurt me they cannot."
(Plato's Crito and Apology)
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